Us dating customs
Therefore, Americans think about marriage as an event that can happen later down the road.However, for Chinese women, there is a societal ticking clock.
But, if there is dating before college then it is usually kept as a secret from parents.
With the unsteady market growth and rising real estate prices, Xinhua News estimated that 50% of young people over age 30 cannot afford both a car and house (Xinhua 2010.) It is likely that the younger Chinese generation is also rebelling against "traditional marriage culture" and instead pursuing pure love, where economic stability of a spouse isn't as vital as it was.
Research also shows that gender norms are gradually shifting, and women are more eager to be independent, thus rejecting the notion that a man must provide a house and a car.
Chinese couples also sometimes refer to each other as “husband” (老公) and “wife” (老婆) even when they’re not actually married -- another indicator of the serious implications dating has for many Chinese people.
Naked marriages, known as 裸婚 (luǒ hūn) in Chinese, are when a couple gets married despite not owning a car or house.