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"Healthy who are in committed relationships will." Weiss acknowledged that these are just the patterns he's observed, and they're not necessarily universal.He also noted that plenty of women are just looking for no-strings-attached hookups.Weiner may have been the subject of extensive public ridicule, but he's hardly alone when it comes to sexting.According to a 2013 Pew Research Center poll, 9 percent of adult cell phone owners have sent a sext of themselves -- defined in this case as a sexy photo or a video -- to someone else, and 20 percent of cell phone owners have received a sext. A full 44 percent of cell phone owners between the ages of 18 and 24 reported receiving sexts in 2013, as did 22 percent of cell phone owners ages 25 to 34. According to a 2011 survey of almost 5,200 users of Ashley Madison, a social networking site that describes itself as "the most famous name in infidelity and married dating," 60 percent of women and nearly 50 percent of men said they'd sexted with someone outside their relationship, suggesting a solid correlation between infidelity and sexting.In the messages, Melissa's husband described graphic sexual acts he wanted to do with the woman. "I wanna cum on ur tits now." Now that Melissa had evidence, her husband immediately changed his tune: He didn't think he'd done anything wrong, because he'd had no physical contact with the other woman.But for Melissa, it didn't matter whether he'd actually followed through with his graphic messages. She decided to file for divorce, a process she's still going through today. adults found that 85 percent of women and 74 percent of men consider sexting a form of cheating. Merriam-Webster defines "sexting" as "the sending of sexually explicit messages or images by cell phone." But other definitions vary, depending on whom you ask.A person had sex with someone outside of the relationship -- that was it, case closed.But now, with the advent of Internet porn, messaging apps and online forums, people may not always agree on what cheating actually is.
Weiss said that women may be hoping to find out if other men besides their romantic partner find them attractive or interesting.Melissa said the text messages were what drove her to dissolve the marriage. I’d rather he just screw somebody and get it over with," she told Huff Post. I think any type of intimacy that you have outside of your marriage with somebody else is a form of cheating." It seems many people agree with Melissa. In a 2011 piece for Gizmodo, Sam Biddle described it this way: "It's not If I just send you an unsolicited cell snapshot of my junk, I'm not a sexter -- I'm a pervert.If you're my girlfriend and I do it, I'm still not sexting -- there's no message, no action -- just "Here, look at my blurry genitals." Robert Weiss, a social worker and director of intimacy and sexual disorders programs for the Elements Behavioral Health treatment center, told The Huffington Post that according to the clients he works with, sexual texting, or texting about sex, is not the same thing as sexting.(In fact, recent studies suggest that when it comes to the desire for casual sex, there's no gender gap at all.) But while everyone has their own reasons for sexting outside a relationship, many of them simply boil down to this: They're looking for a feeling of excitement their relationship doesn't provide.Bryan* has sexted with women outside of relationships many times in the past, but he says he never intended to meet up with his sexting partners.